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GOOD OPINION
In
Arabic “husn-u zan” means to have good opinion
about others.
To be suspicious about
people without evidence, to consider the servants of Allah
The Most High as bad is not a good attitude. Distrust also
leads the person to conceit that this is a very bad habit.
In the Noble Quran it
is declared:
“O
ye who believe! avoid suspicion as much (as possible): for
suspicion in some cases is a sin: and spy not on each other
nor speak ill of each other behind their backs. Would any
of you like to eat the flesh of his dead brother? Nay ye
would abhor it...but fear Allah: for Allah is Oft-Returning
Most Merciful.”
Our dear Prophet-pecae
be upon him- said: “Be cautious about
suspicion. Because suspicion is the most lie of the words.”
They brought a man to
Ibn-i Mes’ud-one of the Companions of Our Prophet-.
The beard of the man was wet. They said:
-Look at him. Wine is dropping from his beard. Thereupon
Ibn-i Mes’ud said:
-How do you know that? It may be water. Hadrat Prophet
forbade the “tecessus” which is to search the
faults of people.
While having good opinion about someone else is known
as “husn-u zan”, having distrust against others
is “su-i zan”.
As it is seen on the
example above, while it is possible to have a bad opinion
about a person with wet beard as “wine is dropping
from his beard”, also one can say “it may be
water”. To choose the bad one from them is both a
sin and evil in ethics, preferring the positive thinking
is a merit in religion and a good behavior.
Some proverbs about
this subject: “Having good opinion is nearness to
Allah, having distrust is a crime.” And, “Consider
all people pass by as -hizir-a legendary person who is known
as immortal- and consider every night as Kadir-when the
Noble Quran revealed-.
One should keep in mind
that having good opinion is not an obstacle and shouldn’t
be for being a prudent and smart person known as sagacity
-feraset- and
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As Hadrat Prophet-peace
be upon him- said: “A believer isn’t beaten
for two times by the same snake’s burrow -he doesn’t
err in the same subject for two times.-”
“Be
cautious about the sagacity of a believer. Because he looks
with the Light of Allah”
A believer is a prudent,
wise and sharp person. He distinguishes his gain from loss
and the useful things from harmful ones. Essentially isn’t
his choice about faith and not to be in the darkness of
disbelief sharpness.
Having good opinion
about others and being full with kind feelings of a person,
doesn’t mean to err in all cases and to bear and tolerate
the deception of others with harmful deeds for him.
Positive way of thinking
about people helps to the peace of society as it helps to
the peace of the individual.
Opposite of it, “su-i
zan”- nourishing bad feelings and negative opinion
about people, darkens both the inside and outside of the
person and it makes life unbearable. Furthermore it is harmful
for the next world.
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