| LYING
Telling
the opposite of the fact or of the thing that one knows
or expressing that with behaviors in order to deceive others.
The Arabic equivalent is “kizb”.
To deceive others is a very bad behavior. Islam considers
lying as evil and states it as an aspect of infidels.
“It
is those who believe not in the Signs of Allah that forge
falsehood: it is they who lie!” (1)
“Is
it not to Allah that sincere devotion is due? But those
who take for protectors other than Allah (say): "We
only serve them in order that they may bring us nearer to
Allah." Truly Allah will judge between them in that
wherein they differ. But Allah guides not such as are false
and ungrateful.” (2)
A wise person should
avoid lying. Because the most important quality of a Muslim
is his honesty and trustworthiness. There are many verses
and hadith which state that lying is a forbidden act. As
an instance of this, it is declared: “When someone
tells a lie such a bad smell goes out of his mouth that
angels goes a way for a mile because of it’s filthiness.”
There is much information similar to this. One should keep
in mind that lying is forbidden and regarded as sin in all
divine religions. In the doctrines of modern society, lying
is described as the worst behavior.
A liar wants to convince
the other person to what he says. So he makes a treachery
to a believer without reason. It’s certain that such
a lie is a reason although it gives no other harm. But beside
this there are very bad results of telling lie which reach
up to the point of the ruin of the cities and towns and
the destruction of people.
Some Muslim’s
property and honor are destroyed by lying. Because they
cause a lot of harm. Some lies are more severe than others
in respect of injustice and being forbidden. There are some
lies which are tolerated and given permission.
Two kinds of lie are
strictly forbidden and evil:
1. the most severe type of
the lies, because of the badness in their essence, they
do a lot of harms. The most base of this group is the ones
that ascribe lie on Hadrat Muhammed -Peace be upon Him-
and which is directed to alter the principles of Islam and
spoil the fundamentals of the belief. So in a Hadith it
is declared: “Who purposely ascribes a lie on me and
communicates a word that I didn’t say, he’d
better to prepare his place in gehenna/hell!”
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(1) Chapter Nahl, 16/105.
(2) Chapter Zümer, 39/3.
2. Telling lies when there
is no need is an aspect of liars. In this respect in an
Hadith it is sadi: “Allah Almighty doesn’t look
to the liar president, to the haughty poor and the old adulterer”
Savants interpreted this Hadith in this way: A head of state
who tells lie although he has no need, a haughty poor although
pride is not proper to him, an adulterer old man although
his lust is weakened and adultery is not proper for him
at all; the deeds of these people are the greatest crime,
ugliest rebellion and most base behaviors.
The sort of lie which
are tolerated-mubah-, laudable -mendup- and approved -müstehab-
in religion are the ones that told to reconcile Muslims,
to avoid the harms of the defeatists. For instance if a
cruel one runs after a good person to kill him and the pursued
one comes to a place, when the cruel person asks the people
around if they saw the man, their lying as we didn’t
see him to protect and save the person is laudable in religion
perhaps it’s a due. Again if there is enmity between
two people to remove this feeling telling lie is approved
by religion. It’s proper to lie in order to reconcile
a husband and a wife and to cause them love each other whose
relation has spoiled. In war to prevent the damage of enemy
telling lie, is seen as tolerated.
The terse saying “The
lie which establishes order and become useful is better
than the truth which causes instigation and disorders.”
summarizes that. (1)
But one should be cautious in two respects while telling
lies about tolerated cases:
- Is there a real necessity
for telling lie? This should be considered carefully.
Some people regard as proper to lie in order to provide
material benefit for themselves.
- When the excuse and
necessity is removed, one shouldn’t turn to lie.
It’s narrated that Imam Sabi used to tell his servant
about some people that he didn’t want to meet; when
those people come, tell them that “he is not home”.
These kinds of behavior is named as
“meariz”. If it’s possible to escape
from something, telling lie is not proper. So savants
say that:
“Speaking allusively protects from lying.”
Concerning lying, families
should behave carefully. They shouldn’t give an example
of lie to the children in the age of education. It’s
very important to keep their words given to the child in
the development of character. . If they don't keep their
promises the child’s pure mind would get used to the
lying which comes first among evils.
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(1) Description of Ethics, A. Rifat
They asked to Our Prophet
-Peace be upon Him-
-Is it possible for a believer being timid?
-Yes he can. He said,
-Can a believer be stingy?
-Yes he said,
-Is it possible for a believer being liar? They said.
-No, he can not be, The Prophet declared. (1)
A liar is disgarced
both in this world and in the other. Because as a person
gets used to telling lies he is stigmatized as liar before
Allah The Most High.
Our Prophet declared:
“Take up honesty seriously and do not abandon it.
Because honesty leads a person to goodness and goodness
guides to Paradise. As a person speaks true and search for
the truth he is marked as honest before Allah. Avoid lying
because lie leads one to badness and badness leads to Gehenna/hell.
As a person tell lies and run after lie he is stigmatized
as liar before Allah “82)
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(1) Muvatta, Imam Malik
(2) Buhari, Edep, 69; Muslim, Birr,29
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